{"id":2192,"date":"2010-11-24T17:15:17","date_gmt":"2010-11-24T21:15:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/?p=2192"},"modified":"2010-11-25T17:30:53","modified_gmt":"2010-11-25T21:30:53","slug":"are-you-thankful-for-the-bad-stuff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/are-you-thankful-for-the-bad-stuff\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Thankful for the &#8220;Bad&#8221; Stuff?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Typically in the personal development arena, we hear teachers driving home the message that you need to be thankful for the &#8220;good&#8221; in your life.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>They tell us: You&#8217;ve gotta &#8220;count your blessings.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You need an &#8220;attitude of gratitude&#8221; for what you have, because then you&#8217;ll attract more of it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>And while those sentiments certainly are true, they only tell half the story<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>If you follow their instructions to the letter &#8212; and you&#8217;ll hear the same refrain A LOT over the next few days, thanks to Thanksgiving \ud83d\ude09 &#8212; you find yourself running from the &#8220;bad&#8221; things in your life while you embrace the &#8220;good.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hmm&#8230; hold up a second. Don&#8217;t these same teachers tell you that &#8220;what you resist persists&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the only way to appreciate just ONE HALF of your life without resisting the OTHER HALF is to IGNORE it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And that, my friend, is what we call &#8220;denial.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So what can we do instead?<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Well, it&#8217;s a given that you want to give thanks on Thanksgiving (hence the name).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also a given that these are some of the most trying times we&#8217;ve seen in years, and it can be hard to feel &#8220;thankful.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>But the key is to &#8220;give thanks&#8221; even in what may seem like our &#8220;darkest hours&#8221;&#8230; and to give thanks FOR that very darkness<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Because, whether you currently believe it or not, at some point, in every seemingly &#8220;negative&#8221; circumstance or event, some &#8220;good&#8221; will rise from the ashes of pain, stress, or heartache.<\/p>\n<p>After all, it&#8217;s the &#8220;bad&#8221; or &#8220;trying&#8221; times in our lives that teach us the most. These are the times that create &#8220;miracles&#8221; and &#8220;a-ha moments&#8221; and plant the seeds for unprecedented strength.<\/p>\n<p>In the <em>Thank God I&#8230;<\/em> series of books, the authors who share their stories have come to this realization (I&#8217;m featured in the upcoming <em><em>Thank God I&#8230; <\/em>Volume 3<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all become thankful for even our greatest challenges, because those circumstances led us to become who we are today.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it&#8217;s true&#8230; against common self-help wisdom, we&#8217;ve learned to appreciate the &#8220;bad&#8221; things that have happened to us.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It is hard to believe someone could be <strong>thankful for rape<\/strong>.<br \/>\nIt is hard to believe someone could be <strong>thankful for incest<\/strong>.<br \/>\nIt is hard to believe someone could be <strong>thankful for cancer<\/strong>.<br \/>\nIt is hard to believe someone could be <strong>thankful for the death of a loved one<\/strong>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But authors in these books are thankful for all of these things and more&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">They know the truth<\/span>: that EVERYTHING contains both good and bad elements, just like a battery needs a positive and a negative side to work. Your reaction to it depends simply on your perspective.<\/p>\n<p>And whether you&#8217;re thankful for all that happens to you, or you&#8217;re struggling with how to appreciate your circumstances, you&#8217;ll LOVE these awe-inspiring stories of triumph over tragedy.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>So to give you something to really be thankful for This Thanksgiving, <em>Thank God I&#8230;<\/em> is giving you the opportunity to grab the digital versions of BOTH best-selling books, <em>Thank God I&#8230; Volume 1<\/em> and <em>Thank God I&#8230; Volume 2,<\/em> for only 9.99.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>When you read these stories, you will instantly realize just how much YOU have to be &#8220;thankful&#8221; for&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>AND we&#8217;re even going to sweeten this deal a little more as our way of showing our thankfulness for YOU!<\/p>\n<p>10 percent of ALL proceeds will be donated to the Charitable Society of Friends, a charity whose primary goal is serving children &#8212; the future of our world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This package will also come with several great bonus gifts, such as<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&gt; <\/span><\/strong>My brand new e-book, Unwrapping the Mysteries of Life ($27 value)<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&gt;<\/span><\/strong> 20 minutes FREE\u00a0 counseling or Angel reading ($50 value) from Carla Van Walsum<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&gt;<\/span><\/strong> Another 20 minute Angel reading ($50 value) from Jackie Haughn<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&gt;<\/span><\/strong> Dealing With Stress ($47 value) from Annabelle Bondar<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><strong>&gt;<\/strong><\/span> Gratitude Works Journal e-book ($27 value) from Katherine Scherer and Eileen Bodoh<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><strong>&gt;<\/strong> <\/span>COMPLIMENTARY TICKET to the Gracing Through The Holidays Day Retreat in Topanga, California, December 5, 2010 ($150 value) from Dianne Porchia<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><strong>&gt;<\/strong> <\/span>A Successful Mastermind Group video ($800 value!) from Nancy Seagal<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><strong>&gt;<\/strong><\/span> Relax, Restore and Revitalize! Accelerated Breakthrough Audio Download ($200 value) from Nancy Seagal<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&gt;<\/span><\/strong> And more&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thankgodi.com\/216-41.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>This package<\/strong><\/a> will only be available Thanksgiving Day and &#8220;Black Friday&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I know it will change the way you look at &#8220;gratitude,&#8221; and it might even change your life in bigger ways.<\/p>\n<p>Get on the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thankgodi.com\/216-41.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>special advance notification list<\/strong><\/a> to grab it tomorrow, or watch your inbox for an email from me (you can join our newsletter list on this page if you&#8217;re not already on it).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your Partner in the Quest for<br \/>\nLiving a Life Without Limits, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Heather Vale Goss\" src=\"http:\/\/heathervale.com\/images\/sigHVG_2.1_blue.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"205\" height=\"35\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Typically in the personal development arena, we hear teachers driving home the message that you need to be thankful for the &#8220;good&#8221; in your life. 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