{"id":1728,"date":"2010-01-18T22:28:23","date_gmt":"2010-01-19T02:28:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/?p=1728"},"modified":"2010-01-19T02:23:44","modified_gmt":"2010-01-19T06:23:44","slug":"puking-your-power-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/puking-your-power-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Puking Your Power Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve talked about this before, but we think it&#8217;s high time we brought it up again&#8230; especially since a counterpart of ours (a personal development products marketer) just sent out the following email:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not sure if you know this about me but I try to\u00a0avoid watching or reading the news as much as possible. I don&#8217;t want to\u00a0give focus to that which I don&#8217;t want.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But lately I&#8217;ve felt like I haven&#8217;t been able to escape it&#8230; it&#8217;s been right in my face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8230; Negative comment after negative comment&#8230; it&#8217;s depressing!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But the part that really disgusts me is how the media always seem to sensationalize an unfortunate situation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Especially in these tough economic times I don&#8217;t think it helps the way they constantly bombard us with negative hype.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If you&#8217;re on this person&#8217;s list, you&#8217;ll know who we&#8217;re talking about; but it really doesn&#8217;t matter WHO it is, because this is such a popular stance in the spiritual-personal growth arena.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"margin: 2px 12px; border-width: 0px;\" title=\"head in the sand\" src=\"http:\/\/www.expertbusinesssource.com\/articles\/blog\/1260000326\/20090911\/head-in-the-sand.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"330\" height=\"255\" \/>Self-help teachers, motivational speakers, and\u00a0personal development\u00a0authors all spout the same\u00a0mind-numbed <em>rose-colored-glasses<\/em> message repeatedly (more often, it seems, than TV runs commercials, product endorsements and marketing messages): &#8220;<strong>Avoid the news like a plague, because it&#8217;s all bad stuff<\/strong>!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yikes&#8230; what a negative and limiting way to look at the world: assuming that everything you&#8217;re going to see on the news is going to be something bad. And even more so, how sad and severely counter-productive to put out the weak-willed intention that you won&#8217;t be able to handle it!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ooh, I can&#8217;t watch anything negative&#8230; otherwise it will make me think and do negative things that will really screw my life up!&#8221; members of the anti-news brigade say, quaking in their boots as a friend or family member dares to turn on the TV at 6:00 or 11:00 p.m., when the daily local news is being shown.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->&#8211; <span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><em><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Cont&#8217;d<\/span><\/em><\/span> &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Aaah!!! Not the news!&#8221; they cry out, shrinking like the <em>Wicked Witch of the West<\/em> after a bucket of water&#8217;s been thrown on her. (See <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/lwl-7-minute-sunday-round-up\/\" target=\"_blank\">our post here <\/a>too\u00a0about <em>The Good Witch of the North<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re telling me about a fire&#8230; that&#8217;s bad! Oh no, a fender bender&#8230; I don&#8217;t want to know that there&#8217;s ice on the roads, because then I&#8217;ll focus on getting in an accident! Arghh, a product recall! I don&#8217;t want to know that anything I may have purchased might be defective!\u00a0 Oh no, interest rates are up and so is unemployment? \u00a0How can this be???\u00a0 I&#8217;m melting&#8230; I&#8217;m withering away!&#8230; I&#8217;m becoming &#8212; ackk! &#8212; NEGATIVE!!! It&#8217;s DISGUSTING!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We like to call these people <strong>News Hermits<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You know how a hermit hides away from the world? Well, News Hermits hide away from the news.<\/p>\n<p>They can&#8217;t deal with the fact that somebody somewhere in the world &#8212; maybe in their own community &#8212; might have temporarily been the victim of something or other. And by avoiding hearing about it, they become victims themselves&#8230; victims of the media. Victims of the news. And victims long term, unlike the people on the news.<\/p>\n<p>By becoming disgusted with what they see, hear or read, they <em>puke their power away<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re essentially saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m not strong enough to watch this story and still remain strong in my convictions and integrity. The story is more powerful than I am, and I intend to keep it that way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This is what we said about the practice in one of our updates last year:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>We&#8217;re always more than amused when we have readers who write in and throw the the whole &#8220;I&#8217;m intelligent, therefore I don&#8217;t watch TV&#8221; B.S. at us. The implication, of course, being, &#8220;I don&#8217;t, so why should you?&#8221; Usually the folks who take this EXCESSIVE action do it because they don&#8217;t have the internal wherewithal, nor the mental fortitude, to discipline themselves to watch selectively. There&#8217;s a reason there&#8217;s a channel selector; there&#8217;s a reason there are hundreds of channels for hundreds of interests. Yet, the &#8220;TV is Beyond Me&#8221; droids don&#8217;t get that.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s no different than the person who continually signs off as &#8220;Namaste,&#8221; using it as a protective mechanism that also makes the person feel bigger than they are&#8230; with a sense of importance over the rawness and frailties of life.<\/p>\n<p>This post is for those of our readers who &#8220;get&#8221; that it&#8217;s not TV that&#8217;s the problem. TV, instead (and depending on which SHOW you have the power to watch or not watch), is a medium for showing the mindset of the masses in the grandest ways possible.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>How about this point of view<\/strong><\/span>: It&#8217;s wonderful that the majority of stories on the news are what some people tend to label &#8220;negative&#8221;, because that&#8217;s what makes the cut as &#8220;newsworthy&#8221; for the day in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Newsworthy&#8221; is anything <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">unique<\/span> or <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">out of the ordinary<\/span> that affects your life&#8230; if it happens a lot, it&#8217;s not newsworthy. As an example, when one person in a city of 600,000 gets mugged, that&#8217;s news, because it&#8217;s only .00016% of the population that it happened to. The fact that millions of people had a great day today is not news, because it&#8217;s the norm everywhere; the day that people having a good time becomes news is the day we know the world is in a really bad place!<\/p>\n<p>Besides, there are plenty of so-called &#8220;positive&#8221; feel-good stories also covered in the news &#8212; people helping people, volunteering time and energy, getting together for a common goal, etc.<\/p>\n<p>But hey, look&#8230; even if the puppet masters have an agenda to show you as much negativity as possible, to break down your willpower the way a cowboy tames a wild horse, you&#8217;ve only let them win if you refuse to watch the news.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s admitting that &#8220;they&#8221; and their agenda are more powerful than you!<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it goes without saying that we&#8217;re not recommending you spend hours and hours each day consuming media or watching TV (the &#8220;electronic income reducer&#8221;), regardless of what it is you choose to take in. Everything in excess can be detrimental.<\/p>\n<p>We just believe wholeheartedly that taking a stand and refusing to hide from the goings-on in the world around you is much healthier than living in fear, or feeling like you need to censor your experience of life by avoiding certain aspects of it.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #cc3300;\"><em>Feel free to comment below&#8230;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Your Partners in the Quest For<br \/>\nLiving a Life Without Limits,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"Barry and Heather\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lwlurl.com\/content\/LWL_artwork\/images\/signatures\/barry_heather\/sig_B&amp;H_7.1_blue.gif\" alt=\"Barry and Heather\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> By the way, read our report titled &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/GR\/122909.html\" target=\"_blank\">The Catch 22 of Financial Wealth<\/a>&#8221; yet?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve talked about this before, but we think it&#8217;s high time we brought it up again&#8230; especially since a counterpart of ours (a personal development products marketer) just sent out the following email: &#8220;I&#8217;m not sure if you know this about me but I try to\u00a0avoid watching or reading the news as much as possible. 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